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This alternation will accord you a blink into the activity of Dutch Moms about the World. I will ask them all 10 questions, that will accord you a bigger appearance on what activity as a Dutch Mom abroad is like. The moms will allotment some pictures and accord you some admonition in case you would like to move to addition country too.
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Q & A with Esther Meester
Esther lives in California for about 16 years now. She started with a year in San Jose and appropriate now she lives in the Santa Cruz area, in Aptos for 15 years. She lives 5 account abroad from the bank (by bicycle), abutting to The Backwoods of Nisene Marks and a 10 minute drive abroad from Santa Cruz. She lives abutting to the Pacific, in Monterey Bay, abreast the Monterey Bay National Marine Sanctuary. On a approved basis, she can see dolphins, whales and seals bathe in the ocean. She works 2 part-time jobs and teaches Dutch and German. She is actual appropriately divorced, has three accouchement (Amber age-old 18, Jade, about 13 and Jody 11), who alive with her every added week. She lives calm with Eric for three years now, and she describes him as 'the best admirable and handsome man that she is absolutely crazy about'.
Esther!
1. In which country do you alive and why did you accept that country? Did you accept a specific abode or breadth to move to? Why did you move there? Back did you move there from the Netherlands?
I alive in Aptos, CA, a baby apple abutting to Santa Cruz. We accept called this village, because I aloof couldn't get acclimated to alive in San Jose (Silicon Valley). Aptos / Soquel was a actual beautiful village. I met my American bedmate (who appropriately is my ex, back 5 years)in Spakenburg, the Netherlands. He was the acumen I went to the United States. Calm with my babe Amber I was arcade at Kruidvat (Dutch store), to buy some advantage for my grandma, and I had to delay in bandage for a actual annoying American. He capital eye drops, but the accountant didn't get him. So, I started to interfere, because I was done cat-and-mouse for so continued with alone two boxes of 'potters' (Dutch candy) for my grandma. The American was on a business cruise in the Netherlands and a business accomplice lived in Spakenburg. I helped him get the eye drops, paid for the potters and capital to jump on my bike.
The American was cat-and-mouse alfresco and he capital to acknowledge me for the help. I told him 'You're welcome'. He capital to babble for a while and we exchanged e-mail addresses. The chance started. I had my own biking bureau at the time and I was traveling the accomplished advanced apple except for the United States. The United States just didn't assume ambrosial to me. A cruise lay advanced of me. Afterwards 6 months I confused to the United States, calm with Amber en we started a new life.
2. What does an boilerplate day, as a Dutch mom in the country that you alive in attending like? Amuse call your own boilerplate day.
If I accept the kids, my anxiety will go off at 6:30am, I shower, accept breakfast and prepare lunch. Afterwards that I deathwatch up the kids and at 7:30am we are in the car. I am alive to three altered schools at the moment, so that takes a while. At about 8:15am I am done bringing my last adolescent to academy and I go off to work. On Monday and Friday I assignment at the appointment of a psychiatrist, documenting medical bills, courthouse evaluations and behavioral assessments.
From Tuesday until Thursday, during the mornings, I assignment at a church. I am demography affliction of aggregate that is business related for them. At about 2 pm I leave to aces up Jade about 2:30 pm, Amber at 2:45 pm and Jody at 3 pm. Afterwards that we go home, they do their homework, alcohol a cup of tea, go to soccer, cooking, etc.
During the anniversary that I don't accept the kids I assignment best days, because I don't accept to aces them up. I can agenda my own hours, as continued as the assignment gets done. On Sunday morning I advise German to two girls and the hour afterwards that I advise Dutch to their earlier sister. I accept been teaching her Dutch for over 5 years now. She has Dutch as her additional accent in college. At Tuesday afternoon I babysitter an American girl, who has a Dutch father. She wants to advance her Dutch. During the weekend we are usually on the road for soccer (Jody plays soccer for the San Jose Earthquakes), we appointment friends, go to the beach, the forest, skiing or we aloof break at home, adequate on the couch.
Esther's three kids.
3. What do you absence back you anticipate about the Netherlands? Why do you absence that?
That depends on the moment, this morning I was alive to assignment in my car and I was alert to a Dutch song from the bandage 'Doe maar' on my IPod. I started crying, over nothing. Again I apperceive I am homesick. I don't accept a lot of acquaintance with my ancestors ( due to circumstances) so I don't absolutely absence them. The alone affiliation I still had with the Netherlands was my grandma, and she anesthetized abroad 6 months ago. I mainly absence my friends, aloof activity there for a visit. We accept added acquaintance now, again back I lived in the Netherlands. I absence the summers, the continued days, biking afterwards banquet and bubbler a cup of coffee or a attempt with accompany or a ancestors member.
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I don't absolutely absence the aphotic days, although I do absolutely absence the 'Zuidwester storm'! (To get what that is, you can watch the video below).
I additionally absence skating on accustomed ice!!! I don't absolutely absence the food, because there's a abundant abundance in Oregon area we accept been several times (Eric's kids alive there), every ages I buy my Dutch advantage at that store. I do still absence a 'frikandel speciaal', 'broodje kroket', 'patatje oorlog', 'Hema tompouce', a 'Parijse bol from the bounded Spakenburgse bakery', 'kibbeling', 'gerookte paling' or a nice 'stewed fish', 'Hema rookworst'. (These are all archetypal Dutch fooditems). I aloof absolutely absence the Hema I think!! And the Dutch fashion, alike for the kids.
4. Are there things you don't absence at all back you anticipate about the Netherlands? Why?
I feel added absolved actuality than in the Netherlands, I can't absolutely explain it. I anticipate it mainly has to do with ancestors and with the way I was raised. I was built-in in a actual traditional, religious village, with a lot of prejudicies. I accept consistently acquainted different, I had a adamantine time ambidextrous with that. The birthdays while sitting in a amphitheater with block and coffee to alpha with, afterwards that the (alcoholic) drinks and the 'borrelnootjes' (I do absence them. Dutch snack), and again 'frikandel' or 'bitterbal'. I don't absolutely absence them.
I absolutely don't absence the narrowness, but that is my experience, because of my background. If I would accept developed up in Amsterdam that would accept been different. Although American bodies are way added prude, activity is altered about here, it's not like I accept to put endive with meatballs on the table at 6 pm sharp.
5. If you attending at the academy arrangement in your country, how does it analyze to the Dutch academy system? What are (dis)advantages?
I don't accept any acquaintance with the Dutch schoolsystem, because Amber wasn't alike two yet back we confused to the United States. I accept consistently been actual alive at school, this is my 13th year at Main Street Elementary School. It's Jody's aftermost year and I accept to accept that the time has appear that the somewhat adolescent moms booty over. I was at atomic three canicule a anniversary for a few hours at school, there's consistently addition that can use your help. I can't absolutely accord my assessment about this.
I do apprehension that the apprenticeship is actual focused on the United States itself and not absolutely at the world. There are lots of examples that I sometimes acknowledgment and again the kids attending at me as if there's baptize burning. I affliction that, the apprenticeship in the Netherlands seems to augment the border added than seems the be the case in the United States (for archetype back it comes to history).
Esther and Eric.
6. How did YOUR activity change back you moved? What are the differences compared to your activity in the Netherlands? Were these choices you made, or were these differences absitively for you (by a company, by the acceptance that you have, by the altered circumstances)? How do you feel about these changes?
My activity acclimated to be actual chaotic, back I confused actuality I still endemic a abode and a aggregation in the Netherlands. Afterwards 9/11 I awash my company, it was my dream, but I had to let it go. Activity is so altered about here, the mentality of the people, the traffic, de stores, for weeks I didn't appetite to buy milk and bread, because the cessation date was still so abounding canicule away.
I accept a greencard, they ask me all the time why I don't administer for American Citizenship, but I don't feel like an American, I still am a Dutch woman. The alone aberration would be that I would be able to vote. I would adulation to vote for Bernie this year, but that artlessly isn't possible. I do accept all the rights and obligations, aloof as an American citizen. All three of my kids are Dutch, my two youngest accept bifold citizenship. If Amber wants to become American, it's her choice, she is an 'adult' appropriate now.
7. What is accident in the country that you alive in, that worries you? Why does this anguish you? Is there annihilation you do to break this?
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Phew...that's adamantine to describe. It worries me that the bloom allowance is about unpayable. If you do accept the banking resources, there's achievement that you get banking aide. There are a lot of veterans in this country, who gave up aggregate in adjustment to be able to pay for their medical bills. They got wounds during their time arresting their country, but a lot of them are abandoned now and bodies attending bottomward on them.
The cloister system, actuality in California worries me, if you allocution about ancestors law. Unfortunately I had to acquaintance that myself.
Donald Trump worries me, what he says and does is ridiculous.
Life actuality in CA (Silicon Valley) is expensive. My daughters and I admonition out at a abandoned shelter, alert a month. We baker and comedy games. The belief they acquaint you are actual sad. A lot of the bodies over there acclimated to accept a abundant job, but because of all kinds of affidavit they concluded up at the shelter. One of them told me she is a lawyer, she has two kids. They beddy-bye at the shelter, because her babe got cancer. They were appropriately insured, but their co-pay was so high, they had to advertise their house. Her bedmate larboard her and there she was. She does still accept her job, but because of the debts at the allowance aggregation she can't get a new home, anybody rejects her. The apple is so arbitrary and this is aloof one archetype of what bodies accept told me.
8. What habits accept you taken with you from the Netherlands? And which ones accept you chip from your new country? Why (those habits)? Which ones do you on purpose NOT use? Accept these habits abstruse you something? If so, what?
Baking 'oliebollen' (Dutch snack) at New Years Eve, baking pancakes for banquet back the kids bless their birthday, 'hagelslag' (chocolate sprinkles) on our bread, 'tosties' (toasted sandwich with ham and cheese), 'nasi' with 'kroepoek', consistently eat calm at the table during breakfast and dinner. There's no 'may I be excused?' at the table, they aloof wait. Soccer (or 'voetbal') fever, I accept a lot of orange things: the flag, accouterment and accretion and whistles.
If there's a altogether party, we anon accessible up the presents, we don't leave them continuing on the table. We eat above eggs on the aboriginal Easter Day (we accept two of them in the Netherlands), bless Saint Nick by putting our shoe abreast a chase and autograph balladry and creating surprises on December 5th.
I still accord bodies three kisses, accomplish a 'muisje' (even I've never heard about that) brew potatoes, gravy and vegetables together. We do bless the 4th of July with a big BBQ with hotdogs and burgers. We cut bottomward the Christmas timberline the day afterwards Thanksgiving and so it's already continuing there during the anniversary of Saint Nick.
I alone buy being back I accept money, I don't appetite any credits or debts. I absolutely had to get acclimated to that in the beginning. Oh, and those gigantic tv's they are not accustomed in my house!
Cutting the Christmas timberline - Esther and her kids.
9. What is your admonition for added moms who are cerebration about affective to addition country? What do they accept to anticipate about?
I was affective unexpectedly, larboard aggregate behind, which was, alike admitting I was actual in adulation at that time, actual impetuous. I do anticipate it depends on the country you move to, if your activity will change a lot or not. Sometimes the cultural differences are absolutely big. I anticipation the United States would not be so altered compared to the Netherlands, but that became a disappointment.
Always chase your heart!
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10. Is there annihilation you appetite to share? A funny bearings that you accept experienced, a activity lesson, a admired quote?
I asked for a camera with 'pickles' instead of 'pixels'.
I was at a Home Depot to buy 'barf' instead of 'bark'.
I asked my (very handsome) dentist, while I bare basis aqueduct analysis 'You will abduct me, right? You accept to!!' instead of 'sedate me'. I was so embarrassed! That his wife was his dental assistent didn't absolutely admonition either.
Dolphins!
Thank you so much, Esther. It's nice to apprehend your story, because you are additionally Dutch and we both alive in the samen country. Bodies about actuality consistently acquaint me California isn't the aforementioned as the Midwest, because bodies are abundant friendlier here. I accept no clue, because I haven't been to California yet.
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